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Keeping an eye on your LinkedIn connections

How do you make sure that the people you are connecting to on social networks are connecting for the right reasons?  Do you automatically connect on Facebook or Twitter or LinkedIn?  Why?

There are many tales, particularly within LinkedIn, of people asking to connect and then spamming your connections with something along the lines of: “I see you and I share Bob as a connection. He said I should get in contact with you as there is something I can do to help your business”.

Would you share a client list with a member of your network before you had a good idea of what they are all about as I know I wouldn’t.  All I’m saying is don’t automatically connect to everyone who invites you to.  Ask them how you can help each other and what they are looking for.  The chances are they won’t reply at which point, simply delete the invitation.

When they do reply, keep an eye out for the sales pitch. For large numbers of people, the first response they get from that person is a sales pitch. They try to circumvent the process of getting to know the connection, build trust and then get to the point where leads and referrals happen.

If you do find that someone isn’t interested in connecting with you for the right reasons, there is a very simple solution. You can simply remove the connection. It doesn’t tell them and you can simply fade away, protect yourself from the incessant sales pitches and protect your network from the same.

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